You get a text or call, and you are pretty sure it is a booty call. This happens to both men and women, and the story is all the same. I think I can tell you how important you are to them, by when they send the booty call.Let's split this up into three catagories.

The first category let's call, NUMERO UNO. It is any call between 9 and 11 pm from someone interested in you for a booty call. They may just seem to be asking what your plans are, but it really is a set up for a booty call. If you are getting contact during this time window, you are high on the priority list for that person and you are probably their first and best option.

The second category, RUNNER UP, would happen sometime between 11pm and around 1 in the morning. You could shorten this window if the bars and clubs close earlier then that, so be aware of that. I would catagorize this as the active hunting phase of the night. They probably struck out on their first option and maybe spotted you accross the room, or they may be asking you to come out. THIS IS ALSO A BOOTY CALL! Especially if there are drink exchanges happening, that is a tell tale sign. This happens before last call during the main part of the night. If you are getting a booty call during this window, you are high on the list, but not their first option.

The third and final category is LEFT OVERS! If you are getting a call anytime after 1 in the morning, you are probably someone they have slept with before and are a last resort. Another thing to keep in mind is that the later the call, the farther down the list you are to them. If you think that they are going to settle in a relationship with you if you are getting most of your calls from them in this time frame, I have some beach front property to sell you on the moon!