I love babies!…from a distance though. I'm scared to hold babies and I never know what to do with them when they start crying. I'm a lot better with kids when they're at a toddler age. Even then, I don't know what to do with them when they get out of hand. These are all signs that I'm not ready for kids. You may relate to this, you may not. Some women are more naturally in-tuned with their mother instincts. Another way you can tell you're not ready for kids, is when you need four hands to manage just one baby. Example:

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